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Sep 30th 2009 Where can I find beautiful women who are willing to date average-looking, average-waged guys?

There is a new study that finds women are dating more for looks these days and less for money, which means, unfortunately, that the average-looking man will find it even harder to date attractive women. He can’t even hope to date them by becoming a multi-millionaire! I, for one, am deeply concerned.

Although there are, of course, exceptions, it is generally believed that people of similar levels of attractiveness tend to be attracted to one another.

At the same time, there are very beautiful women who may be willing to date someone who is average-looking as long as he was someone she could admire in terms of his personality and/or integrity and/or morality, etc.

One problem for you, though, could be that you may be willing to overlook women with attractiveness of a level similar to yours (average-looking women who know how to make the most of their looks can be pretty attractive). The fact that you appear to be wanting to do this doesn’t say much for your character – so you may not quite have the exceptional personality and character that would interest a knock-out-beautiful woman.

Something you may want to consider (or may not realize) is that often times women who are considered "knock-out beautiful" are seen that way not necessarily because they were born with unusually beautiful faces but because they are physically fit and have a good hair-stylist and good make-up on an otherwise "average-attractive" face. I’m not taking anything away from the fact that they manage to be seen as beautiful, but the other side of that is that any number of average-looking women could look far more beautiful with the right make-up, hair and maybe weight adjustment or figure-enhancing under things.

Maybe you need to consider getting a make-over and doing whatever it takes to get your body into great shape if it isn’t.

Also, it takes a certain amount of time and money for a woman to have the personal trainer, the cook, the nanny, the expensive make-up, and the hair stylist often required to be extremely and amazingly beautiful. You may want to consider the money factor when factoring in your average wages into the imagined scenario.

You probably have reason to be "deeply concerned" – not because of your average looks or average wages, but because of the value you have placed on "beautiful" and also for your apparent belief that you can expect of someone else what you, yourself, are not.

Finally: I know you’re question shouldn’t be taken all that seriously; but as long as I’ve gone this far I’d like to add one thing; and that is that extremely beautiful women are humans. Whether or not their beauty is completely natural (and it usually isn’t) or is a matter of know-how any beautiful woman worth dating wants you to date her because of who she is and not what she looks like. Extremely beautiful people have a whole bunch of superficial crap they have to deal with all the time; so the irony is that the one thing you might be able to offer a beautiful woman (wanting to date her because you have met her and like her for who she is) is the one thing you may not have.

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Sep 30th 2009 why do korean men resent white men dating korean women?

Not only that! Korean men actually fear that White men will actually date their own women.

same reason black women resent white women from dating their black men…. they don’t fit the flava’, are prejudiced inside and think the races shouldn’t mix. BS cuz, mixed kids are GORGEOUS!

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Sep 30th 2009 How to Meet Women Naturally-Quit Striking Out and Start Hooking Up

Are you curious about how those natural pick up artists can collect a phone full of numbers from beautiful women while you seem to hardly get any opportunities to date at all? How would it feel to be able to accomplish the results that those guys are getting so that you can increase your opportunities of finding the woman who you honestly desire to be with? You may be thinking that here is no hope for you to ever become smooth with the oppostite sex in order to get more chances to date them. Well, if that is what you desire then reading this sarticle can help you learn the rules of dating hot women.
To start with, you must to find out if you are stricken with the ‘nice guy’ dilemma. Ever wondered why the nice guys don’t get the girl and girls are constantly hooking up with ‘jerks?’ If you have, then surely you have learned something about these ‘jerks’: They are unafraid to go after what they desire in regards to women. They are pursuing girls and they are getting dates as you are walking on eggshells wondering if the woman is interested in you or not. And that, my friend is the primary reason that the ‘jerks’ are getting what they want and you are frustrated.

You see, the nice guy who showers a girl with attention and gives her gifts and invites her out to expensive dinners is too soft. Women are looking for a guy who they know can protect them from the creeps out there in the world. When it comes to that, these ladies would much rather date a man who is  more of a bad dude than one who gives them whatever they want.
Women are stronger than you think and are willing to handle bold men quite well. It’s the soft ones which they usually maintain as ‘just friends’. After all, a soft guy is not going to be capable of protecting them and the family. What does it mean to be a little rough around the edges?

Well, it means that you disagree with a woman and assert your own boundaries. If you honestly desire to have her, then go after her and don’t worry about being too bold in doing it. A woman is going to be quicker to forgive your blunders if you demonstrate to her that you are bold enough to go after what you truly desire.

After you have these down, we move on to the approaching stage. Afraid of being turned down? Well, think about what will happen if you never get up the guts to initiate conversations with ladies: You are going to be left with the options which are left over after every other man is done choosing. You see, women have a lot of opportunities when it comes to men, they are being asked out all the time. For what reason then, might they bother to increase their opportunities when they already have plenty?
That said, set yourself a ‘rejection quota’ and start approaching women. Don’t let it bother you about what you are going to say to them, just say something and get yourself learning by finding out what gets responses and what does not. A lot of men spend time reading books and learning approaching scripts which is a sure dead end. Better to go take a chance and get a feel for the real life experience of talking to women. When you do, you will learn VERY quickly and save yourself a lot of extra time.
And finally, accept the fact that you are scared of being rejected and start focusing your effort on confronting that fear by taking consistent action in opposition to it. Here is what you will find out: After you make the approach, the fear will vanish as if it never existed in the first place. Then again, if you hesitate and ‘man I wish I could talk to her’ for ten minutes then you will be left to face the fear  the entire time. Better to eliminate it as soon as possible by getting right in its face.

After you have learned each of these steps you will see yourself learning a knack for how to approach females. Once that happens you will discover  that building rapport with a girl or even seducing her is a lot less work Good luck.

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Sep 30th 2009 Love Xone EP19: Dating Women with Kids

Should you date a women with children? Why or Why not???

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Sep 30th 2009 How To Win Love Back With Common Sense

How to win love back is a subject that I want to talk about today. Too many people do this all wrong. They believe that they must aggressively pursue their ex in order to get him back. In truth, nothing could be further from the truth. If you would like to understand how to win love back, follow the advice as closely as closely as possible.

The first thing you need to know in the ways to win love back arena is that you do not want to chase your ex.

Too many fellows believe they must pursue their ex’s. They send hundreds of texts, call at wierd hours of the day, and even stalk their ex girl’s home. They send flowers and gifts.

This is incorrect, inaccurate, inaccurate as it makes you look desperate. Women like Alpha males, not sniveling guys they think are jokes. When you appear desperate, your ex girlfriend will start playing head games with you. She’ll let you come over, and then invite a new guy over too. She’ll pretend she is interested only to go off in another direction.

And, the more you fall into this trap, the more games she’ll play. This is not the answer to ways to win love back.

Instead of chasing her and being desperate, you want to play games with her that make her come crawling to you.

When you are in a group that includes her, flirt with every girl but her. If she’s got an enemy in the group, pay special attention to that girl. By ignoring your ex, you make her want to come back to you. You are reminding her of all your charms, but not applying them to her.

It’s a good idea to go out on a date with one of her close buddies. Send your ex a SMS announcing “now that we’re just friends, I wanted your opinion about something. Where should I take Mary to dinner after the big game?” That is sure to make your ex squeeze envious and it’s one of the tricks for the way to win love back.

Even if you do not need to play head games with your ex, there’s one thing that you can do that can help you in the a way to win love back arena. That is, you should be happy.

Girls like to date cheerful men. If you work on you rather than focus on her, you have a much better chance getting at the gym. Hang with your buddies. Get entangled in a past-time you never had time for when you were dating her. Go out on dates. Even if you have to fake being happy at first, you’ll soon understand that you are happy.

This way, whether you get the girl back or you move on, you’ll be a happier person.

And, that’s my advice for how to win love back.

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